Gender Equality in the 21st Century – Rights vs. Reality

Gender equality isn’t a “women’s issue.” It’s an opportunity for men to shed the burden of being the “breadwinner” and engage in the emotional lives of their loved ones without shame. It’s a world where your natural inclinations matter more than the gender you checked on your ID card.

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The problem arises when we close the textbook and look at what’s happening around us. Reality is still full of glass ceilings, subtle remarks, and expectations that differ depending on whether you’re a woman or a man. As someone just entering adulthood, I see this disconnect between what we’re taught and what we actually encounter in everyday life, in the media, or in our future careers.

Stereotypes are nothing more than cognitive „shortcuts” that our minds build to organize complex reality.  Although in theory they are supposed to help us with quick orientation, in practice they become a stiff corset that we impose on another person before we even give them a chance to present themselves. In the context of gender equality, the problem is not the very essence of the differences between us, but the social belief that these differences determine our competences, ambitions or emotionality. A stereotype acts as a filter: it only lets in those characteristics of an entity that fit the generally accepted pattern, and treats anything outside of it as an error or anomaly.
 
 

Examples of stereotypes:

⦁ „The woman behind the wheel” Legal perspective: From the point of view of the Highway Code, the gender of the driver does not exist. The state driving test is identical for everyone, and the criteria for assessing skills are rigid and objective. The law assumes that the person holding the document is a full and competent participant in the movement. Reality: In the road reality, there is still a harmful stereotype „women behind the wheel”. It manifests itself in the fact that the mistakes made by women are immediately attributed to their gender, not to inexperience or a bad day. Application: We are dealing with an absurdity: a woman who has legally obtained a license still has to „prove” her worth on the road more than a man. Mocking women behind the wheel is a form of social pressure that shows that despite equal regulations, in the mental sphere we still divide areas of life into „male” and „female”. This is a classic example of a situation where the law gives freedom, but culture tries to limit it through shame and ridicule.

 
 
⦁ „Men’s” and „Women’s” competitions Legal perspective: The Constitution and the Labour Code guarantee everyone the freedom to choose their profession. An employer has no right to refuse to hire someone simply because of their gender, and the same work is due the same remuneration. EU programs and state actions encourage: „Girls to universities!”, „Gentlemen to education!”. Reality: Culture is still trying to „pigeonhole” us. Mocking people who go beyond this framework is commonplace: Woman in the „manly” world: A construction engineer or programmer often hears that she got the job „for her pretty eyes” or so the company could write parity. When she makes a mistake, it is summed up by saying: „Well, yes, technique is not for women.” Man in the „female” world: A guy who wants to be a nurse, kindergarten teacher, or flight attendant is still the subject of mocking questions about his ambitions or orientation. It is often believed that such a profession is „demotion” for a man or that „he could not find a normal job”.
 
 

Wage gap - men's vs women's pay

Although the constitutional principle of equal pay for equal work is the foundation of modern labor law, reality in the 21st century still deviates from this ideal. The pay gap (gender pay gap) is not just a mathematical difference in transfers, but a complex structural problem that often escapes simple regulations. This problem results from „the glass ceiling” and occupational segregation. Women are still more likely to dominate lower-paid sectors such as education and healthcare, while decision-making and technical positions are more often filled by men. Even in the same positions, women are less likely to negotiate raises, often fearing social judgment or prejudice related to family plans. Moreover, the wage gap does not arise in a vacuum. It is closely linked to the so-called „second job” –, i.e. a huge amount of domestic and care work that still statistically rests on women. It is this invisible burden, often imperceptible in statistics, that constitutes a barrier to professional development, which I will discuss in detail in the next part of my post.
 
 

Second Time: The Invisible Barrier to Success

When official office or company working time ends, the so-called „second job” begins for many women. This concept describes the sum of domestic and caring responsibilities that still predominantly rest with women. Although the law guarantees us equal opportunities in the labor market, in the privacy of our homes there is still a belief that a woman is the „manager” of the home. This burden is not just physical work like cooking or cleaning. This is primarily the so-called mental load, i.e. a constant mental load. Women are more likely to remember doctor visits, vaccination dates, parent-teacher meetings, gift shopping, and caring for family relationships. It’s constant planning and logistics that take place „in the head”, often remaining unnoticed by those around them. The consequences of this phenomenon are devastating for women’s professional path. While partners are more likely to be able to afford overtime, delegations or evening training, women have to manage the home infrastructure. This lack of flexibility, resulting from the unequal division of roles, means that after working, they no longer have the strength, time and energy to take care of their own development, networking or fighting for higher positions. As a result, until homework becomes a shared responsibility, equality enshrined in law will remain merely a theory, colliding with a wall of daily, unevenly distributed responsibilities.
 
 

History of gender equality

The history of gender equality is the path from the complete subordination of women to men to their recognition as equal subjects. For centuries, the role of women was confined to the home and participation in public life was excluded. The turning point came with the 19th and 20th century suffrage movements, which won the right to vote, education and professional freedom. Later, second-wave feminism began to combat inequalities within families and workplaces, forcing states to introduce anti-discrimination laws. Today, the situation of women is radically better than it was a century ago. While we still face challenges like the pay gap, progress is real, and traditional gender divisions are constantly blurring.
 
 

Pop culture - examples of films

„ The Warriors” in its new version is a powerful voice in the discussion about contemporary feminism, equality and the need to break down the stereotypes that burden pop culture.

„Substance” is a twisted story about how much we are willing to sacrifice for eternal youth. Elizabeth Sparkle, an aging TV star, is experiencing the horrific consequences of taking an illegal drug that the supplier claims will transform her into a younger, more beautiful and better version of herself.

The topic of gender equality in cinema and pop culture is currently extremely dynamic, often oscillating between breaking stereotypes and analyzing the phenomenon „the male gaze”. Contemporary reviews emphasize that engaged cinema not only shows strong heroines, but above all deconstructs systemic barriers.

Summary

The project „Gender equality in the 21st century” showed that despite significant legal progress, society still faces mental and systemic barriers. The analysis confirmed that the key to modernity is a shift away from rigid stereotypes towards authentic partnerships at work and at home. The main conclusion of the project is that equality is not a privilege, but the foundation of development that brings tangible economic and social benefits to all genders. Our activities have shown that building a world without glass ceilings requires continuous education and the active promotion of inclusive attitudes in every area of life.
 
 

Nasza szkoła wkracza do świata Erasmusa+. Dzięki finansowaniu z Unii Europejskiej wiosną 2026 roku 28 uczniów i 3 nauczycieli-opiekunów wyjadą do Grecji, by realizować projekt: „Od muru berlińskiego po równość kobiet – rozwijamy kompetencje cyfrowe i językowe analizując walkę o prawa człowieka w Europie”.

„Projekt finansowany ze środków Unii Europejskiej. Wyrażone opinie i poglądy są wyłącznie osobistymi stanowiskami autorów i niekoniecznie odzwierciedlają stanowisko Unii Europejskiej lub podmiotu przyznającego wsparcie. Unia Europejska oraz podmiot udzielający dotacji nie ponoszą za nie odpowiedzialności”.
 
„The project is financed by the European Union. The opinions and views expressed are solely the personal views of the authors and do not necessarily reflect the position of the European Union or the entity granting support. The European Union and the grantor are not responsible for them.”
 
Projekt finansowany jest z funduszy Europejskich w ramach programu Erasmus+, sektor Edukacja szkolna (nr projektu: 2025-1-PL01-KA122-SCH-000333684).

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